News alert: you shouldn’t be suffering in the saddle! Saddle sores, soft tissue pain, chafing, and pelvic floor issues should not be ignored.
There ARE solutions to your saddle pain and discomfort “downstairs”. In this article (and podcast episode), I’ll share 7 things you can try to address your issues.
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1) Try a women’s specific saddle.
Most stock saddles are designed for men, not women. If you’re still riding on the saddle that came with your bike, try upgrading.
We especially recommend trying a women’s-specific saddle. These are generally designed to better suit the female anatomy, addressing wider sit bones and our soft tissue.

Numerous women-specific saddles are available on the market, and we’ve tested and reviewed a bunch for you. But remember, everyone’s anatomy varies, and therefore what works best for me might not be what works best for you.
It’s beneficial to try out several different saddles to determine which one is a good fit. If possible, opt for shops that offer loaner saddles for testing. Or, buy from a brand like Terry that will let you test any saddle for 30 days.
Another important thing to consider when selecting a saddle is your sit bone width. Everyone has different pelvic widths, and it’s crucial to find a saddle that fits you just right.
While there are DIY methods available online, like using memory foam or tin foil to measure your sit bone width, getting a professional bike fit can offer a more accurate measurement. Some bike shops even offer this service for free if you’re buying a saddle from them.
If you want to try measuring your sit bones on your own, I made a video showing you how. 👇
2) Switch up your bike shorts.
If you’re new to cycling and haven’t yet bought a quality pair of bike shorts, this could be a game-changer. If you already own a pair and still experience discomfort, it might be time to explore other options.
Try investing in a higher-end pair, or experiment with different thickness levels for the padding, known as the chamois. Some cyclists even prefer riding without a chamois altogether (particularly for mountain biking or bikepacking).
Just like saddles, the size and shape of chamois vary, and finding the right one requires some trial and error. Try a few and see what works best for you.

3) Change the position of your saddle (or better yet, get a bike fit).
If you’ve already tried new shorts and a new saddle and that hasn’t helped, it might be that your saddle is just positioned incorrectly.
When I interviewed Natalie Collins, a professional bike fitter, on my podcast, she explained: “A lot of people that come in to see me are on the right saddle, just the saddle is positioned in the wrong way. We have to position that saddle in a way that we can support sit bones. The saddle is just a little bit too tilted up or tilted down.”
Try experimenting with the position of your saddle over several rides and see if that helps.
Or better yet, invest and get a professional bike fit. An experienced fitter can help adjust your position on the bike so that you’re better situated on your sit bones.

4) Use chamois cream.
If chafing is your issue, try a chamois cream. Chamois cream acts as a barrier between your skin and your shorts, reducing friction.
You can apply a small amount to your butt and/or inner thighs. We recommend looking for one that is pH balanced for women!

5) Take off your bike shorts right away.
As soon as your ride is over, take your bike shorts off. As in, in the parking lot! Leaving sweaty shorts on can cause yeast infections, rashes and other yucky (and uncomfortable!) stuff.
And when you get home, make sure to take a shower.
6) Give it time.
You shouldn’t suffer forever, but if you are brand new to cycling, give it some time. Your butt muscles will toughen up and you might even develop a few callouses. (Yup, that’s a thing).
7) See a physical therapist and/or doctor.
Sitting on a saddle can aggravate pelvic floor issues. Don’t suffer!
There are solutions. Online platforms like YouTube have numerous pelvic floor yoga and exercise tutorials.
In more severe cases, it’s advisable to consult a physical therapist specializing in pelvic floor issues. It’s a common problem, and seeking professional help shouldn’t be stigmatized.
Additionally, if you’re in peri or post menopause and experiencing soft tissue pain, seeing a doctor for prescription vaginal estrogen can make a big difference!
Even More Help
- How to Heal (and Prevent) Cycling Saddle Sores
- Don’t Wear Underwear With Bike Shorts & 5 Other Tips On How To Wear Bike Shorts
- Getting Back On The Saddle After Having A Baby
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A podcast for women who love bicycles! We we celebrate all forms of riding and all forms of women, so whether you’re a road cyclist, mountain biker, or bike commuter, you’ll find your community here. Each week we’ll week bring you interviews from inspiring women, and offer tips and tricks to help you thrive on the bike.
About The Host

Kristen Bonkoski is a USA cycling and NICA coach, bike educator, and founder of Femme Cyclist.
She’s also the host of the Femme Cyclist podcast and runs Rascal Rides, a website about biking with kids.
She’s been riding bikes for more than two decades and is passionate about empowering women on the bike.
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